May you feel the hope of new beginnings, love and happiness during this joyful Easter holiday!
May you feel the hope of new beginnings, love and happiness during this joyful Easter holiday!
I grew up the baby of three children to a single mother who never stayed home. I was a shy child who preferred to play alone because sometimes other people were too hard. I often felt judged by other children and adults. I didn’t feel accepted. I was different and it wasn’t okay. Needless to say, I was very lonely.
I did however have access to records, tapes and eventually CD’s and MTV. Specific artists and musicians became my best friends and family . Music is the invisible, yet tangible, shoulder you can cry on. I claim it as tangible because you can feel the vibrations in your body. Yet it isn’t a “thing” you can still feel it. It stays with you. It makes you happy, it makes you sad, it has the power to make you think. It can even make you brave.
Music helps you get through life (an electric word life). The ups and downs. The passing of time. Your break ups, divorce, heartbreaks. The happy times too. It pushes you out of bed. It gives you the will to keep trying. Music can inspire so many things and make you feel so much emotion.
When you grow up with favorite artists and you keep them with you, they become like a family member. I don’t know exactly how to label my personal feelings for Prince. He was just a non descriptive family member. My rock. A role model, teacher, a shoulder to cry on. Prince helped me when no one else had the time.
Prince had the power to make me feel okay to just be human. A woman. A woman who shouldn’t be ashamed or even afraid of her body or her sexuality. A confident being who was free to be just that. Confident. He made sure I knew that there was nothing wrong with me, and that anyone who had an issue with me, just had issues. Anytime I felt like someone had something negative to say to me or about me, I could almost here Prince telling me “Girl, there ain’t shit wrong with you.”
“Cool means being able to hang with yourself… All you have to ask yourself is ‘Is there anybody I’m afraid of? Is there anybody who if I walked into a room and saw, I’d get nervous?’ If not, then you’re cool.” Prince
I have a list of memorable quotes from Prince etched into my brain. Thoughtful and witty things that he said over the years that I could apply to my own life anytime I needed to. A lot of them, as I stated above, were related to self esteem issues and life itself. Prince was no stranger to criticism.
Prince, without a doubt, was a creative genius and even to say that just sounds so bland and incorrect. I have had trouble coming up with better words to describe this man. The truth is that there are no words in the English language to properly describe who Prince is or was to so many of us.
I know that God was pleased with him and He has welcomed Prince home. It was evident with the brightly covered rainbow that poured over Prince’s home and studio in Paisley Park. I don’t think that it was a coincidence that it was raining that day.
As I was driving home from work that night, it was still raining. When I turned on the radio, the station was playing Purple Rain. It was towards the end of the song. The end of the song is as amazing as the song itself. It was a surreal moment.
I cried for him. Purple Rain is definitely one of my favorites, but it’s clearly not the only song he wrote. If anyone only clung to his popular releases, they’ve missed out. Prince had an impressive catalog of songs for every moment.
Just to name a few: Controversy, Diamonds and Pearls, The Most Beautiful Girl In the World, 1999, Pussy Control, I Would Die 4 U,When Doves Cry, Gett Off, 7, Let’s Go Crazy, Pop Life, Little Red Corvette,Raspberry Beret, Thieves In the Temple, Darling Nikki.
Prince wrote songs for other artists. A lot of people don’t know that he wrote the song “Manic Monday” that was made popular by The Bangles. He also wrote “Nothing Compares 2 U” for Sinead O’Connor.
Prince made me blush on more than one occasion and I loved it. He was so exciting. I still remember as a young person figuring out the lyrics meant, from the song, “Little Red Corvette”, when he sang “She had a pocket full of horses, Trojan, and some of them used,”
His poetry was genius ( again not the right word to describe it) and every single thing he said and wrote made perfect sense and it flowed.
Prince is no doubt , the best guitarist that we’ve known in modern times. Just ask Eric Clapton. He will tell you. It’s also not well known that Prince played a dozen instruments, a lot of them were self taught. He also played a major role in all of his production.
He was truly original.
I can’t express how disappointed I am that he had to go so soon. I don’t have the write words to say it. Prince was such a beautiful, talented, generous and sweet man. The world has truly lost someone special. I am grateful for the music, the videos, his personality, the persona, the style. Everything.
Thank you, Prince Rogers Nelson for helping me get through this thing called life.
The city of South Bend, Indiana paid tribute to Prince as well. In the gallery below are a few photo’s that I took around the city. The first three were found on an electric scrolling marquee. The fourth photo is of our East Race River Walk on the St. Joseph River. It’s so obvious that Prince touched the lives of millions. I am grateful that others are so free to express that, without care of popular opinion. That’s how Prince would have wanted it.
I believe that we have seen the last of the snowfall for the year. The temperatures are starting to rise and soon the remaining ice and snow will melt and leave us with a muddy mess for awhile.
I’m okay with that.
Next week our temps will be in the upper 50’s and lower 60’s. It’s early though, I know. March comes in like a lion and out like a lamb, they say. In a matter of an hour we had rain, freezing rain, ice and then snow. I went to Target for twenty five minutes and walked out to an inch of snow on the ground.
This morning the air was foggy, the ground was icy but at least the sky was sunny. The sun always helps to make up for the things going on around you. It does for me at least.
This winter wasn’t much of a winter. We had some periods of snow but not as much as we have in the past two years or that I can remember. It didn’t get nearly as cold either. I’m okay with that too. Old houses get drafty.
I only got to use my snowshoes once but I still got outside and hiked frequently. I really don’t mind that it didn’t snow much, I hate to drive when the weather is bad. Considering that I live in southern Michigan and northern Indiana, you would think that people would remember that we deal with this every year, but they always forget how to drive etc.
It sure can be pretty to look at. I snapped the photo below when I decided to take an alternative route home after I dropped my son off at school. I couldn’t help but stop to admire the red barn and the snow. The silence.
So long Winter, you still technically have a few more days until it’s officially Spring, but I think you’re done until next year. At least I hope so. I’m totally ready for warm weather. I’m also ready for the possibilities the rest of the year will bring.
What about you? Do you enjoy the winter time?
I hope everyone is having a great weekend!
A few days ago I wrote a post about how my little red Australian Cattledog, Hilli, had passed away called “Death and Friends-Hilli Has Flown Away.” I ended up placing her in the freezer at my friend Diana’s house because I am in Indiana and it gets cold here. The ground is frozen. Frozen solid. You would need large equipment to dig a grave.
I am not afraid to admit that this has given me a little anxiety. It’s a huge favor and it’s a really big deal to me that she be honored for her lifetime of love and everything she’s ever been through. It also grosses me out a little bit.
Her response to my repeated THANK YOU! was totally classic.
She said “Everyone needs a friend that will let you keep a body in their freezer,”
I would totally do that for her too and she knows it. How cool is that?
Our conversations are always the best too. The stuff we come up with would make hilarious Saturday Night Live skits. We are a great Lifetime Television For Women movie about loyalty and friendship. We’ve both been through some garbage and our stories are similar. We just get each other.
We work the same shift and quite often depend on each other to keep the other amused and break the boredom or even vent or whatever comes up. At least once in the shift I try to send a totally hilarious photo that I found on the internet that’s way too inappropriate for my Facebook.
So tonight, one of our co workers was bragging about how they had already been paid. Our automatic deposits don’t generally hit until at least 2am on Friday morning. Somehow, she claims, her check already hit the bank. Knowing her though, she just told us all that to laugh at how we would all check our accounts fifty times in the next hour.
This led to us talking about bills and kissing our pay checks goodbye the minute they even hit our accounts. Such is life. It then led her to disclose her mortgage payment at a house she doesn’t live at because she just got married.
This is also where Hilli is currently wrapped in a blanket and in several garbage bags, in her freezer.
Hello again anxiety.
This is what that conversation looked like..
In case you’re confused, the plan is to bury Hilli’s body, at a currently undisclosed location, where she liked to go hiking with me. It’s probably not legal and we aren’t going to ask for permission. It’s going to be a cover of darkness, plant shovels by the road, hide the car and hurry with a frozen beloved pet….
In reality if we got caught, we probably wouldn’t actually get in real live trouble considering our ties to local law enforcement. We would likely get the low or high brow reaction and probably an offer to help us dig. Seriously, who is going to scold us for this and mean it? I’m telling you, we are a made for television movie.
This is isn’t supposed to be funny but right now, I’m seriously smiling because I have a great friend who knows what matters and that’s the greatest feeling ever. I’ve said that I keep my circle small. I would rather have a handful of amazing friends than two hands full of mediocre or just plain crappy ones.
Di is a gem and I am so overlywhelming grateful for her.